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hen a child’s voice is routinely overlooked, it’s not just their confidence that dims—it’s their willingness to think out loud. Over time, they may stop asking questions altogether, assuming no one wants to hear them. But a home that welcomes messy ideas and imperfect thoughts can reverse that drift. Expression isn’t just talk—it’s a sign they still believe their ideas matter.

One day, my daughter lingered near the kitchen table, her drawing clutched in one hand. She didn’t offer to show it, so I didn’t push. Instead, I asked if she’d name it. “It’s… storm heart,” she whispered. I said nothing more. Later, she taped it to the fridge. That quiet moment—no praise, no pressure—helped her feel ownership. Not every step toward expression needs a spotlight; sometimes, it just needs space.

When children talk about what they’ve made—whether it’s a story, a sculpture, or a strange new game—they begin to organize their thoughts. These conversations aren’t rehearsals for school; they’re the groundwork of creative thinking. By showing interest without judging or steering, you help them practice forming and refining ideas. That practice, done often, turns uncertainty into something they can shape and share.

TIPS

• Celebrate small expressions, like drawings or stories.

• Avoid correcting their ideas; focus on their effort.

• Make sharing a daily habit to build resilience.

ACTIVITIES

• Art Talk: After a creative task, ask, “What did you create today?” Discuss for 10 minutes to foster expression.
• Pride Talk: At dinner, ask, “What are you proud of today?” Discuss for 15 minutes to encourage boldness.